Third week in Advent; Joy

Actually, I'm having my doubts as to whether this is supposed to be the Angel's candle or the Shepherd's candle. I do know that it IS supposed to be the candle for joy. Regular readers will understand if I'm having a hard time writing something about joy in the midst of my grief this year- but I will try. There is reason to be joyful, just be patient with me, I'll write something before next Sunday. Of course my home computer is infected with malware, so that doesn't help matters.